On the OTHER baby front, Chewie is becoming quite a handful. Every day its a new battle as he gains more and more independence.
Diaper changes are a struggle, unless it's his idea and he comes and tells you that he pooped. Getting down on the floor to change him is getting trickier, and on the times when it's NOT his idea to be changed and he fights it, he does a lot of kicking - getting me in the baby belly every time.
He's really interested in the potty, he likes to follow us in there - and he likes to flush the toilet and watch as we wash our hands. However, he has absolutely no desire to sit on it himself, or on his own little potty... I can tell that he's getting closer to the training stage, but i'm wary of pushing him. He runs away to hide when he poops, and when he HASN'T told us that he pooped he becomes very possessive of his diaper. He doesn't want to be changed, he says: MY DIAPER!! NOO! MY DIAPER!! - and frankly, some days i swear i would let him sit in it if he didn't have such sensitive skin and was so prone to diaper rash.
Not sure how we'll tackle this... very gently, i suppose. I keep thinking it would be so lovely to only have one baby in diapers at a time, but then i think that i'd just get him trained, the baby would come and he'd revert back to square one. So many people i know had this happen to them. Is it worth the fight now, when he doesn't seem to be ready yet - just to do it all over again in a few months? Also, once i have the baby, i'll be at home every day and will be able to get him on a schedule or program. Any thoughts?
He's discovered that mama's pee-pee and daddy's pee-pee don't look the same and we've started trying to explain different genders to him.
He says "Good Boy, Mama!" when i help him with his puzzles... and i try to correct him with Good Girl and say Daddy and Chewie are boys, Mama is a girl. He'll get it eventually.
Other fun things include random temper tantrums. I know he's learning to express himself, but if he could hurry up and figure out what he wants, we'd be such a happier home.
Do you want cereal, Chewie?
Do you want tost?
Do you want yogurt?
Do you want a banana?
NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!......i want cereal.
Every morning. Only who knows what he wants... he certainly doesn't ...until after 10 minutes of naming random food in the house.
He also has decided that he wants to sleep in Mama's bed at night. This happened ONCE a few weeks ago when he had a super high fever, and now he wakes up at 1 am and says: MY Mama's BED!!! le sigh.
But it's not all bad. He really is mostly a happy little boy. He loves to laugh and giggle... and he LOVES running. He runs around the living room... he runs around the backyard, he runs in circles, he runs in straight lines...
he likes kisses, he likes to cuddle when he's tired.
He's a little parrot, so we're finally having to start watching what we say... last week when my brother was in town he was standing near Uncle Rico and Daddy, when Daddy said: Fuck yeah! and sure enough, a little squeaky baby voice repeated: Fuck yeah!
and yesterday when i dropped something on my foot i shouted: Dammit!
sure enough, a little squeaky baby voice repeated: Dammit!
every day is a new adventure... somedays i wonder what we were thinking having a second... but most days i think of how exciting it will be for Chewie to have a little brother or sister.